How to Keep Ukrainian Women Interested When Dating Online

When dating online, it can be challenging to keep someone’s attention when you first start getting to know each other.  Without physical contact or getting to meet Ukrainian women in person, you need to put forth your best efforts to keep her engrossed as you work towards a deeper connection.  In the guide below, we provide advice on how to keep Ukrainian women interested when dating online.

Quality Dating Profile

It is undeniable that we attract the same energy we project.  Take a few minutes to review your online dating profile and ask yourself “How Dateable Am I?”.  If you want to chat with that gorgeous and interesting Ukrainian woman who likes drama movies, classical rock, hiking, and fishing, then you’d better step up your dating profile game.  It is important that you use quality photos for your profile.  Avoid bathroom mirror selfies or selfies in general.  Take photos with quality lighting – outdoor lighting usually works great.  The best photos to showcase yourself are lifestyle photos.  Do you enjoy deep-sea fishing?  How about rock climbing?  Nature photography?  Share the things you enjoy with her and it will open the door to fascinating conversations.  You never know what you might have in common once you reveal your interests. 

Make the Conversation Easier

Starting the first few conversations and breaking the ice can be really hard sometimes.  The secret to approaching Ukrainian women isn’t difficult to master.  To make it easier for both of you, start by discussing the things you know you have in common or the things that interested you when you read her profile.  This is a great opportunity to ask her about Ukraine and the culture of her home country.  The goal is to create a thought-provoking conversation.  She just might open your eyes to a whole new world of experiences.  

Real Conversation Required

When chatting with women from Ukraine, you will never earn her attention if your attempts to message her start with “Hey What’s Up?” or “Hey Gorgeous”.  Make the effort to set yourself apart from the crowd of potential suitors by taking some notes when viewing her profile.  Don’t focus solely on her photos.  Ukrainian women may be stunning, but this is your chance to woo a Ukrainian woman.  Did she mention her favorite movie?  Drop a specific quote from that movie during your first messages.  Did she mention that she enjoys cooking?  Ask her which dish she likes to prepare the most.  Perhaps you can ask for cooking tips.  Approaching the conversation with this strategy shows that you pay attention to detail and that you are interested in more than just her looks.

Depict an Active Life

Present to her that you have a fun, exciting and active life.  Take the time and effort to demonstrate you have activities in life besides waiting for her next message.  Doing so will make her want to become a higher priority in your life and be a part of the things you are interested in.  

Absence truly makes the heart grow fonder.  The goal here is to let her know you care about her; that you are interested, but you have a life as well.  That is why it is okay to leave her latest message unread until later.  That does not mean making a habit of late responses or not responding for several days.  However, by not responding immediately, you are showing that you are not desperately hanging onto every word she says.  Be careful  –  if you make her wait too long, it is likely she will find love somewhere else from someone who doesn’t make her wait excessively.  

Let Her Know You’re After the Right Woman, Not Just Any Woman

It is important to let Ukrainian women know you aren’t willing to settle for just any partner, you are searching for the right match.  First, you want to provide details about what you are seeking on your dating profile.  Be sure to outline what the deal-breakers are, too.  Remain positive when crafting the message to avoid sounding bitter.  Second, during your first few conversations, it is likely you will discuss what you both are looking for in a relationship.  This is the opportunity to be direct about your expectations.  Be consistent and don’t flip-flop from what you outlined on your profile. 

Don’t be Overbearing with Compliments

Complimenting Ukrainian women is acceptable, we encourage it.  But, constantly bombarding her with compliments dilutes the value of sincere statements.  Overdoing compliments only groups you with “all the other guys”.  Playing it cool will allow her to maintain respect for you and not see you as a pushover.  It is one thing to compliment someone, but it is easy to place them on a pedestal with unfair expectations they simply cannot live up to.  Be realistic, be sweet, but don’t be overbearing. 

Ask Questions About Her

One of the biggest mistakes you can make with Ukrainian women is to take over the conversation and talk solely about yourself.  Commit to making an effort of showing her you are genuinely interested by asking more about her than you reveal about yourself.  For instance, you can ask about her family, hobbies, music, movies, food, friends and anything else she might have outlined in her dating profile.  The more she reveals about herself, the more her curiosity will grow about you as the conversation progresses.

Conclusion

Without a doubt, the best strategy to keep a Ukrainian woman interested in you is to take a genuine interest in her.  Make it clear you are interested in her and what she likes.  It isn’t necessary for it to become your new favorite thing, but she will know you care if you express interest.  Listen to her when she speaks and respond appropriately.  If the relationship progresses, you will need to be involved in activities together. Early on is the best time to define what you have in common and what you don’t.  Keeping her interested in you will require some effort, but starting your relationship with these tips could help you win a Ukrainian woman’s heart.

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